Each time (slow version)

Ive been searching for this version for gazillion years now!!! Its one of my all time FAVE!!!

 

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"Diba nga mas madali mag-'new life' kapag hindi ka attached?"

"Bakit dyaryo? Bakit hindi nalang tv? Radyo? O Blog?"
"Dahil ang tao ay naghahanap ng mahahawakan, hahaplusin at aamuyin."

"And you learn from her."

"You said your marriage is worth fighting for, then why are you not fighting for it? Why are you running away from it"

"Bakit ka magso-sorry? Ah gusto mo ng round 2?"

"Akala ko ba gusto mo ng bagong buhay?"
"Oo, pero hindi naman ganun kabago."

"Alam mo ang choosy mo. Baguhin mo na ang rule, patol na sa ka-work."

"Kung gusto mo maging magaling na reporter, dapat hindi ka matatakot magtanong."


"Ano yan?"
"Coffee."
"Ano ibig sabihin niyan?"
"Coffee. Antioxidant."
"Malabo ba?"
"Ang ano?"
"Tayo."
"May tayo na pala Cess. Hindi mo man lang sinasabi."

"Seryuso ako. Promise."
"Ingatan mo ang salitang yan ha - Promise... Huwag kang magpromise kung 'di mo kayang gawin."

"Unforgettable kasi wala ka ng hahanapin pang iba. Lahat ng kailangan mo, andun na. Kaya kung idi-describe mo in one word - Perfect."

"Precisely. Okay lang. It has to be better."

"Kung gusto mo maging writer, kailangan mong gamitin ang five senses mo."

"Ang sinasabi ko lang 'tol kaya mong i-adjust and buhay mo depende sa buhay ng mahal mo."
"So?"
"Alam naming kaya mong magmahal. Eh, ikaw ba kaya ka bang mahalin ni Cess?"

"Cess, kontento ka na ba talaga sa ganito?"
"Anong ganito lang?"
"Yung ganito lang. Yung casual lang."
"Yung sex lang?"
"Hindi mo ba hinahanap maging in a relationship?"
"Hindi rin."
"Bakit?"
"Bakit naman ako kukuha ng ipu-pukpok sa ulo ko? Ang ending nun, hiwalayan lang. Di na uso 'yun ngayon."

"Love? Lilimitahan ka lang niyan. Ang dami-daming magagaw kung hindi ka lilimitahan sa love na 'yan. Higit sa lahat, paiiyakin ka lang niyan."
"Napaiyak ka na?"
"Sino ang hindi pa?"

"What if siya lang makakapag-pasaya sa'yo?"
"Kaya kong pasayahin ang sarili ko."

"What if I fall in love with you?"

"Hey hey. Eye to eye. Heart to heart."

"Hindi kasama 'yun sa set up niyo. Tsong, ipaintindi niyo sa sarili niyo. Macky, masasaktan ka lang."

"Seryuso, I love her. Handa ako sa lahat, handa ako sa kaya niyang ibigay... At oo, kung mangyari man, handa akong masaktan."

"Hindi pwede yung sino-sino lang. Dapat yung the best."

"Hindi mo naman kasi kailangang gawin eh."
"I know pero gusto ko."

"Yan kasing set up niyo na ganyan, hindi pwedeng walang ma-in love."

"Tama na."
"Alin?"
"Stop being so nice. Lalo mo akong pinahihirapan eh."
"Ganito lang naman ako dahil mahal kita. I'm sorry Cess. Alam kong wala sa usapan yun pero ito na yun eh. Mahal na mahal kita... Hindi ko na rin kaya magkunwari na naiintindihan ko pa kung ano ang meron sa atin. Hindi ko na gusto. Mamahalin kita ng buo. Aalagan kita Cess. Payagan mo lang ako. Pwede pa bang maging tayo?"
"Gustohin ko man, hindi ko kaya."
"Bakit? Huwag na nating gawing kumplikado. Isa lang naman ang tanong dito eh. Mahal mo rin ba ako?"

"Grabe. Wasak. Halos wala ng matira sa akin nu'n. Kahit respeto sa sarili ko, tinangay niya na rin 'yun eh. Ang tagal kong bumangon, gumapang... Pinipilit na tumayo. Nabuhay kung ano man yung natitira sa akin. Kaya sinabi ko na hindi na mauulit yun. Pero eto na naman, may isang tao na naman sa harap ko na hinihiling na mahalin ko. Gustong-gusto kitaing mahalin Macky pero natatakot ako. Natatakot ako na baka muli akong masaktan. Wala ng matitira sa akin. Kung nakilala lang sana kita noon, 'nung kaya pa nito (puso). Kaya lang hindi na eh."

"Well, I had to leave her."
"I can imagine kung gaano kahirap sa'yo yun."
"No, that was easy. I took the accident as a sign."

"Ako ang kaya ko lang gawin ay ang mahalin ka, ang maghintay sa'yo at umasang isang araw kakayanin mo ng magmahal ulit. Pero 'wag kang mag-alala, hindi kita pipilitin kasi naiintindihan kita."

"Aminin mo na Cess."
"Bakit ganun? Bakit parang hindi ka nag-sasawang masaktan?"
"Hindi naman. Hindi lang ako napapagod magmahal."
"Hindi ka napapagod?"
"Eh paminsan-minsan. Napapagod din, syempre."
"Oh bakit ayaw mong tumigil?"
"Bakit ako titigil? Pwede naman akong huminto sandali."
"Kahit ilang besas ka ng umasa? Masaktan?"
"Oo."

"Naniniwala ako na may nakalaan na tao para sa bawat isa sa atin."

"Ang importante, masaya siya kahit hindi ako ang dahilan ng saya niya."

"Sa isang daang libong bagay na pinipilit, may isang bagay diyan na hindi mo kayang tanggihan."

"She is loving. She is generous... And she will never give up on you.... She is someone who is selfless enough to share her passion, knowledge and heart."

"There is one final lesson: Higit ka pa sa isang daang libong bagay na pwede kong tanggihan sa buhay ko."

"Kahit sa'n pa man, ang aking isisigaw: Ikaw ang aking mahal."

Hard habit to break...

I guess I thought you'd be here forever
Another illusion I chose to create
You don't know what you got until it's gone
And I found out a little too late

I was acting as if you were lucky to have me
Doin' you a favor
I hardly knew you were there
But then you were gone
And it was all wrong
Had no idea how much I cared

Now being without you
Takes a lot of getting used to
Should learn to live with it
But I don't want to
Being without you
Is all a big mistake
Instead of getting easier
It's the hardest thing to take
I'm addicted to you babe
You're a hard habit to break

You found someone else you had every reason
You know I can't blame you for runnin' to him
Two people together but living alone
I was spreading my love too thin

After all of these years
I'm still tryin' to shake you
Doin' much better
They say that it just takes time
But deep in the night
It's an endless fight
I can't get ya out of my mind

Oohh
I can't go wrong
I just can't go wrong
Oohh-woh

I can't go wrong
I just can't go wrong
Oohh-woh

Being without you
Takes a lot of getting used to
Should learn to live with it
I don't want to

Being without you
Is all a big mistake
Instead of getting any easier
Its the hardest thing to take

I'm addicted to you baby
YOURE A HARD HABIT TO BREAK...

My new hot pink rabito

Found this on my desk this morning.. So sweet of lisa^___^

No other woman *movie*

I love the lines..LMAO
My fave: You can call me whatever you want,SNAKE, BITCH or OTHER WOMAN, but I promise you, I will never be a PATHETIC and BORING housewife
*CLAP CLAP*

Kara: No pressure! And kiss me and don’t you dare fall in love with me.

Kara: You will only be called a mistress when there’s an emotional attachment. I’m not a mistress.

Kara: We’re just two consenting adults having fun, there’s no emotional attachment.

Kara: Anong gagawin niyo if the only man that you love is unfortunately married!

Kara: I’m not gonna give up Ram without putting up a god damn fight!

Kara: You can call me whatever you want,SNAKE, BITCH or OTHER WOMAN, but I promise you, I will never be a PATHETIC and BORING housewife.

Kara: Every day I’m trying to convince myself na mamahalin din nya ako, pero sayo pa din sya umuuwi.

Kara: I don’t need to read your research report. I know the market because I am the market.

Kara: Paano mo naman malalaman na masarap pala pag di mo titikman? Kahit alam mong bawal, labanan mo cos’ eventually your body will just get used to it.

Kara: Gagawin ko ang lahat huwag mo lang akong iiwan!

Kara: THERE’S NO OTHER WOMAN BETTER THAN I AM!

Charmaine: Mababaliw siguro ako kung malaman kong may babae siya. Baka mapatay ko yung kabit, silang dalawa actually.

Charmaine: Bakit ko ipaglalaban ang alam kong akin?

Charmaine: Ayoko na! Ayoko na! Alam ko naman eh, ang sakit lang, ang sakit sakit lang nung marinig ko. Hindi ko dapat ginagawa to pero ginagawa ko ‘to dahil mahal na mahal kita!

Charmaine: Sabi nila, a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Sa ganda mong yan, siguro madami kang alam na shortcuts.

Charmaine: Alam mo kasi ang marriage parang exclusive village. Kailangan mong bantayan para hindi makapasok ang mga squatters.

Ram: I PROMISE YOU THERE’S NO OTHER WOMAN IN MY LIFE!

Ram: Ang laki ng kasalanan ko, hindi ko na maayos to!

Charmaine’s Mom: Ang mundo ay isang malaking Quiapo, maraming snatcher, maagawan ka, lumaban ka!

Charmaine’s Mom: Ganyan talaga ang makating DIKYA, nagmamarka!

Charmaine’s Mom: Kung ahas siya mas ahas ako! Tahimik pero kapag kinanti, nanunuklaw.

Charmaine: Tsaka ano bang mahirap kalaban? Yung putang mahirap o yung putang mayaman?
Charmaine’s Mom: Pareparehong puta lang yun! Ang mayaman original ang hermes, ang mahirap bumibili ng hermes sa greenhills.

Ricci Chan: Having fun? Ngayon yes fun! Pero paano pag iniwan ka na niya? Paano pag pinili na niya ang asawa niya? Paano pag na skandalao na ang pamilya mo? Fun pa rin ba?

Kitkat: Meron ba ditong paparty ni Barney na hindi ko alam?

Kara: Are you here to make a scene???
Charmaine: Only if you have an affair with my husband, meron ba???

Charmaine: Why don’t you have dinner with us tonight, pa thank you ko na rin dahil kinuha mo ang asawa ko.
Kara: I’m sorry?
Charmaine: Bilang supplier ng furniture para sa resort niyo.”

Kara: Anything I can do to help you?
Charmaine: Naku huwag na, mamaya makita mo na nilalagyan ko ang pagkain mo ng lason… JOKE LANG! Natakot ka, noh? Sorry ah medyo off yung humor ko lately.“

Charmaine’s Mom: Panahon na para i-pack mo na yang Lucy Torres mo, ilabas mo na diyan si Gretchen Barretto, anak ako na ang bahala sa red stiletto mo!

FROM: pinoymovieblog dot com

Worth d risk?

It’s sad when you realise that love doesn’t take away your pain or heal your wounds or salve your conscience or assuage your guilt or save your soul. If anything, it makes a bigger mess of you because you become aware of just how empty you really are when he lets go of your hand, of how alone you really are when his arm is no longer around yours, of how broken you really are when he’s not around to fix you with his kisses, of how battered you really are when he stops rubbing your bruises away, of how incomplete and disjointed and fragmented and scattered you are. If anything, it highlights your flaws and blemishes and showcases your tarnishes and defects because you’ve always thought yourself unloveable. But someone comes along and brings you down to your knees with the rapid firing of his machine heart and the impenetrable firewall mechanisms of your own heart are torn down and trampled upon and he tells you that he loves you, despite of, no, because of your flaws and blemishes and tarnishes and defects and it’s the end of your banal existence.

But you sillily think that with love’s huzzah and pizzaz and splendour and all that fucking jazz, you’ll become a new person, happier and freer, and your steps will be quicker and your head will be lighter and your smile will be brighter and your heart will beat faster and your voice will be louder and you will sparkle and shine and sing and dance. And while of that does happen, it doesn’t negate the fact that when the spotlights dim and the curtains close and the audience leaves and it’s just you and the dark and your demons, you’re still broken inside.

Falling in love is lovely. It’s natural and easy and you find yourself falling in love with him every single day of your life and it gives you such a rush, such a high and rapids are gushing inside of you and the most powerful monsoons are raining down on you the most beautiful torrential rains and giant craters of the grand canyon are ensconced in the cavities of your pulsating heart. And it brings with it the promise of a life less solitary, an existence less dreary, a future less weary, and carnal pleasures and wicked fantasies and perverse depravity, and playful banter and idyllic chatter and serious discussions and loud angry words and hisses and rude glares and muttered curses and veiled insults and crude profanities and contenment and acceptance and security and growth and forever.

But you’re a free spirit and something of an extremist and the thought of giving all of yourself to one single entity for the rest of eternity frightens you and nauseates you when there’s so little of you left and even though you know, deep within the secret crevices of your broken heart, that you have found the one who will stand by your side and walk baby steps with you for as long as it takes until you stumble upon yourself, you will fight him for the rest of your life or at least until you’ve come into your own, until you’ve embraced your own immortality, until you’ve come to terms with the limitations of your humanity, until you’ve learned to love the fucking riot of a mess you are, until you’ve forgiven yourself, until you’ve saved yourself, until you’ve loved yourself.

Until then, you’ll love him the only way you know how, with all of yourself, as broken a mess as you are, because you’ve realised that love doesn’t heal you or save you or rescue you or fix you. It accepts you and nurtures you and cocoons you and hugs you tight and holds your hand and never lets go and waits until you’re ready to take the plunge. It just loves you and makes all your pain a little bit more bearable.

GIFT

“Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift.”

Vacay mode on

By Mark Gungor *thumbsup*

By Mark Gungor

CBN.com – Here’s a familiar scenario: a woman is dating a guy and thinks, “Ok, so he has A-B-C-D going on and he’s a bum, but Ilove him.”  Then she marries him and in the not-too-distant future she becomes…well, miserable.  She’ll then come to someone like me for counseling.  I often ask, “You didn’t see this before you were married?”  Then she’ll tell me, “Yes, but I thought I could change him.” 

I think a lot of people are not being totally honest during the dating process. Or many feel obligated to follow through with a relationship just because they have been dating for a while, even though they may have some strong reservations.  But if you are struggling with any aspect of who a person is, you probably need to look at that as a red flag.  Ultimately, that is what the dating process is for – to decide, based on what you have learned, whether or not to marry that person.

As people of the Christian faith – a faith that stresses hope for our future, despite the failings of our past – we oftentimes deliberately ignore a person’s past when deciding on a mate.  And while everyone makes mistakes, some mistakes have consequences and ramifications that can follow us for the rest of our lives. Granted, God doesn’t hold our past mistakes against us if we come to him in true repentance, but those mistakes can still have consequences that may negatively affect our future relationships, particularly in a marriage.

The dating process should be a time of discovery and analysis as to whether or not a certain person would make a good lifetime mate.  And make no mistake about it – a person’s history can be a major factor in determining how they will handle their future relationships.   But because of our belief in forgiveness of the sins of the past, many Christian couples fail to factor history into their mating decisions.  The wise seeker of a mate, however, would do well to look into the history of their potential spouse.  And doing so is not unfair, nor is it un-Christian.

I counsel people all the time who struggle with issues that go back to their past. For example: situations where a woman feels like her husband is using her for sex now because of all the other guys in her past who did.  That is something he should have learned about during the dating process.  If you can’t walk those kinds of things out when you are dating a person, if you can’t carry that heavy load, then let them go so they can find someone who can. There are very wonderful, compassionate and kind people who have been gifted by God to do just that.  People who can say, “I will love you, cherish you, and take care of you no matter what.” God can give people great gifts of compassion or encouragement or mercy. It doesn’t mean that those who don’t have those gifts are bad people. It just makes you honest when you realize that you aren’t comfortable in dealing with the baggage of someone’s past. 

Let’s say you learn the person you are dating has a past record of shoplifting. You may wonder what values that person grew up with that allowed them to make a decision like that.  Knowing the choices they’ve made in the past, you may not want to continue on in the relationship – and that, in my opinion, is fair.  The dating process is about finding out about someone, the choices they’ve made and who they are. 

You may say, “But what about forgiveness?!”  It’s not about refusing to forgive a person’s shortcomings or judging someone harshly for their mistakes.  You can forgive them (God certainly does), but it doesn’t mean you have to marry them.  Remember, the dating process is really about looking at the person as a whole and thinking—yes, I am very comfortable with who this person is, or no, I’m not. 

Let’s say your girlfriend tells you that she had an abortion three or four years ago. If you truly believe this is something you can deal with, and you are able to love and cherish this woman and help her with the emotional and physical effects of this, then great!  If, on the other hand, you struggle with some things in her character that allowed her to make that decision, or you are concerned about the emotional and possible physical issues that may result, you have every right to move on. That doesn’t make you a bad person. It just makes you honest. It’s better to decide now,before you are married, than to have great difficulty with it afterwards. Once you say, “I do”, it’s a whole different ball game – you’re in for life.  But it is okay to move on in the dating process.  Remember: that is what the dating process is for.  Besides, it would be better for her to find someone whom God has gifted to be able to handle her past.

Maybe your special “someone” tells you that they have a sexually transmitted disease – one that you too will get once you marry them.  Now’s the time to walk away, if that is something you don’t want to live with.

It could be simpler things like… his family is gross.  Maybe her father drives you crazy. You might see a problem in how her mother treats her father—which could be an indicator of how their daughter will treat you.  Now is the time to walk away. 

Some could be more difficult issues like sexual abuse or addictions to alcohol or pornography.  These kinds of issues are all fair game during the discovery process of dating – again, that’s part of what dating is about. You get to analyze the situation and view the person as a whole and see if you can handle all that goes with taking this person as your spouse.

It is imperative that men and women are totally honest with each other during the dating process. These types of things should be revealed at the front end. It’s not fair to be 18 months, two years, or five years into a marriage and for your spouse to be struggling with issues they didn’t even know existed in you. You must be honest with each other during the dating process.  If someone does not feel they can handle certain baggage, best that they move on.

What they should not do is drag that person along for months or even years if they have some serious reservations.  It’s not fair to the other person. You have to be willing to let him/her go so they can find someone who can deal with who they are – past and all.  People will say, “I really love her/him. How can I just walk away?”  But if you have serious reservations about the marriage, the most loving thing you can do is let them go. It’s not fair to keep stringing another person along, wondering if you can or can’t handle all of their issues.

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