Women's Jelly Beans

Another Jelly Bean THINGY

Alphabet of HAPPINESS

A-Accept. Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have
difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.

B-Break Away. Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish
with your life.

C-Create. Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and
happiness with.

D-Decide. Decide that you'll be successful and joyful come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

E-Explore. Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.

F-Forgive. Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.

G-Grow. Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.

H-Hope. Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain
dedicated to the task.

I-Ignore. Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember
your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.

J-Journey. Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn
something new every day, and you'll grow.

K-Know. Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.

L-Love. Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.

M-Manage. Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you'll suffer less stress and worry.
Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.

N-Notice. Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when
possible, and always your kindness and understanding.

O-Open. Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times,
there's still much to be thankful for.

P-Play. Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.

Q-Question. Ask many questions, because you're here to learn.

R-Relax. Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.

S-Share. Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.

T-Try. Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

U-Use. Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.

V-Value. Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be
there for them as well.

W-Work. Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall
short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

X-X-Ray. Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.

Y-Yield. Yield to commitment. Yield to your commitment to God. If you remain dedicated, you'll
find success at the end of the road. Matthew 6:33 tells us to “Seek first God’s kingdom and His
righteousness and all these things will be added to you.”

Z-Zoom. Zoom to God in prayer when you are overwhelmed with problems and challenges. He
offers you not just happiness but deep and lasting joy.

LOVE LOCKDOWN

I'm not loving you, the way I wanted to

What I had to do, had to run from you

I'm in love with you, but the vibe is wrong

And that haunted me, all the way home

So you never know, never, never know

Never know enough, 'til it's over love

'Til we lose control, system overload

Screaming no, no, no, no, no

I'm not loving you, the way I wanted to

See, I want to move, but can't escape from you

So I keep it low, keep a secret code

So everybody else don't have to know

So keep your love lock down Your love lock down

Keeping your love lock down

Your love lock down

Now keep your love lock down

Your love lock down

Now keep your love lock down

You lose

I'm not loving you, the way I wanted to

I can't keep my cool, so I keep it true

I've got something to lose, so I got to move

I can't keep myself, and still keep you too

So I keep in mind, when I'm on my own

Somewhere far from home, in the danger zone

How many times did I take 'fore I finally got through?

You lose, you lose

I'm not loving you, the way I wanted to

See, I had to go, see, I had to move

No more wasting time, you can't wait for life

We're just wasting time, where's the finish line?

So keep your love lock down Your love lock down

Keeping your love lock down

Your love lock down

Now keep your love lock down

Your love lock down Now keep your love lock down

You loseI'm not loving you, the way I wanted to

I bet no one knew, I bet no one knew

I know I said "I'm through", but I've got love for you

But I'm not loving you, the way I wanted to

Got to keep it gone, keep the loving gone

Keep it on a roll, only God knows

If I be with you, baby, I'm confused

You choose, you choose

I'm not loving you, the way I wanted to

Where I want to go, I don't need you

I've been down this road, too many times before

I'm not loving you, the way I wanted to

So keep your love lock down Your love lock down

Keeping your love lock down

Your love lock down Now keep your love lock down

Your love lock down Now keep your love lock down

You lose

You lose

You lose

You lose

You lose

xoxo Love Lockdown is Kanye's greatest track next to my all-time fave GOLDIGGER! I love the beat and the LYRICS. I tried googling and there were gazilion interpretations of this song... As for me, it's simply letting go of a nonworking relationship. *wink* xoxo

WOMANIZER

whew!

Superstar Where you from, how's it going?

I know you Gotta clue, what youre doing?

You can play brand new to all the other chicks out here

But I know what you are, what you are, baby

Look at you Gettin' more than just re-up

Baby, you Got all the puppets with their strings up

Fakin' like a good one, but I call 'em like I see 'em

I know what you are, what you are, baby

Womanizer Woman-Womanizer

You're a womanizer Oh Womanizer Oh You're a Womanizer

Baby You, You You Are You, You You Are

Womanizer, Womanizer, Womanizer

Boy don't try to front I (I) know just (just) what you are (are are)

Boy don't try to front I (I) know just (just) what you are (are are)

You Got Me Goin' You're Oh-So Charmin'

But I can't do it U Womanizer

Boy don't try to front I (I) know just (just) what you are (are are)

Boy don't try to front I (I) know just (just) what you are (are are)

You Say I'm Crazy I got Your Crazy

You're nothing but A Womanizer

Daddy-O You got the swagger of champion

Too bad for you Just can't find the right companion

I guess when you have one too many, makes it hard

It could be easy Who you are, that's who you are, baby

Lollipop Must mistake me you're a sucker

To think that I Would be a victim not another

Say it, play it how you wanna

But no way I'm ever gonna fall for you, never you, baby

Maybe if we both lived in different worlds(Womanizer Womanizer Womanizer Womanizer)

It would be all good, and maybe I could be ya girl

But I can't 'cause we don't You... Womanizer Woman-Womanizer

You're a womanizer

xoxo The video was effin' hottttt! My fave part is Britney driving the limo, i s0o love the lOok! Track was also GOOD!!! I feel sorry for Kfed, whatttaaa loser xoxo

Xmas

Blissful Christmas everyone!!!

XoXo

Much Love,

*Gwen Helterbrand.Tubid*

Art Of Letting Go

Sooner or later, everyone you know will disappoint you in some way. They'll say something or fail to say something that will hurt you. And they'll do something or fail to do something that will anger you. It's inevitable. Unfortunately, you make things worse when you stew over someone's words and deeds. When you dwell on a rude remark or an insensitive action made by another person, you're headed for deeper problems. In fact, the more you dwell on these things, the more bitter you'll get. You'll find your joy, peace and happiness slipping away. And you'll find your productivity slowing down as you spend more and more time thinking about the slight or telling others about it. Eventually, if you don't stop doing it, you'll even get sick. So what should you do the next time someone betrays you? TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR FEELINGS. Even though the other person may be at fault, even though the other person wronged you, you are still responsible for your own feelings. In other words, other people do not "cause" your feelings. You choose them. For example, two different people could be told that their suggestions made at the staff meeting were "stupid and idiotic." One person may "choose" to feel so hurt that he never speaks up at any other meeting again. The other person may "choose" to feel sorry for the critic, sorry that the critic couldn't see the wisdom and necessity of her suggestions. As long as you blame other people for your feelings, as long as you believe other people caused your feelings, you're stuck. You're a helpless victim. But if you recognize the fact that you choose your feelings and you are responsible for your feelings, there's hope. You can take some time to think about your feelings. And you can decide what is the best thing to say or do. Then, you've got to learn to WALK AWAY FROM DISAPPOINTMENT. It's difficult to do, but it's possible. The famous 19th century Scottish historian, Thomas Carlyle, proved that. After working on his multi-volume set of books on "The French Revolution" for six years, Carlyle completed the manuscript and took volume one to his friend John Stuart Mill. He asked Mill to read it. Five days later, Mill's maid accidentally threw the manuscript into the fire. In agony, Mill went to Carlyle's house to tell him that his work had been destroyed. Carlyle did not flinch. With a smile, he said, "That's all right, Mill. These things happen. It is a part of life. I will start over. I can remember most of it, I am sure. Don't worry. It's all here in my mind. Go,my friend! Do not feel bad." As Mill left, Carlyle watched him from the window. Carlyle turned to his wife and said, "I did not want him to see how crushed I am by this misfortune." And with a heavy sigh, he added, "Well the manuscript is gone, so I had better start writing again." Carlyle finally completed the work, which ranks as one of the great classics of all time. He had learned to walk away from his disappointment. After all, what could Carlyle have done about his burnt manuscript? Nothing. Nothing would have resurrected the manuscript. All Carlyle could do was to get bitter or get started. And what can you do about anything once it is over? Not much. You can try to correct it if it is possible, or you can walk away from it if it isn't. Those are your only two choices. Sometimes you've just got to shake it off and step up. It's like the farmer who had an old mule who fell into a deep dry well. As he assessed the situation, he knew it would be difficult, if not impossible, to lift the heavy mule out of the deep well. So the farmer decided to bury the mule in the well. After all, the mule was old and the well was dry, so he could solve two problems at once. He could put the old mule out of his misery and have his well filled. The farmer asked his neighbors to help him with the shoveling. To work they went. As they threw shovel-full of dirt after shovel-full of dirt on the mule's back, the mule became frightened. Then all of a sudden an idea came to the mule. Each time they would throw a shovel-full of dirt on his back, he would shake it off and step up. Shovel-full after shovel-full, the mule would shake it off and step up. In not too long a time, the exhausted and dirty mule stepped over the top of the well and through the crowd. That's the same approach we all need to take. We need to shake it off and step up. Finally, you need to FORGIVE. It's difficult, especially when the other person doesn't deserve your forgiveness or doesn't even seek it. It's difficult when the other person is clearly in the wrong. Part of the difficulty comes from a common misunderstanding of forgiveness. Forgiveness doesn't mean that the other person's behavior is okay. And forgiveness doesn't mean that the other person is off the hook. He's still responsible for his misbehavior. Forgiveness is about letting yourself off the emotional hook. It's about releasing your negative emotions, attitudes, and behaviors. It's about letting go of the past so you can go forward to the future. Everyone in your life, everyone on and off the job is going to disappoint you. If you know how to respond to those situations, you'll be way ahead of most people. You'll be able to live above and beyond your circumstances.
- Dr. Zimmerman

I asked God...

I asked God to take away my pain.God said "No...It is not for Me to take away, but for you to give it up."

I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.God said "No...His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary."

I asked God to grant me patience.God said "No...Patience is a by-product of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is learned."

I asked God to give me happiness.God said "No...I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you."

I asked God to spare me pain.God said "No...Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to Me."

I asked God to make my spirit grow.God said "No...You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful."

I asked God for all things that I might enjoy life.God said "No...I will give you life, so that you may enjoy all things."

I asked God to help me LOVE others, as much as He loves me.God said "Ahhhh...finally you have the idea.

THIS DAY IS YOURS DON'T THROW IT AWAY

May God Bless You.

To the world you might be one person, But to one person you just might be the world.

BGK day

Me and Junthy

Jamships Mansion

Hubby Tubid's ride (hide d plates quick!!!)

Me and Papi Helterbrand

Tubid Family *lol*

"Why do birds suddenly appear everytime TUBID's near...................."

*puyat ka?

*sunday kagabe gumimik ka?

*san ka galing?

yada yada yada yada yada yada yada yada yada yada yada yada

FLABBERGASTED MOMENT

Me and Thania in bliss bec of the view *lol*

Gemini

Gemini: The Life of the Party!

Those born May 21st – June 20th are Gemini

Sign: Twins

Ruling Planet: Mercury

Lucky Colors: Green and Yellow

Lucky Day: Wednesday

Lucky Numbers: 3 and 4

Birthstones: Pearl, Emerald and Agate

Trait: I think!

Characteristics: Fickle, DUAL PERSONALITIES, talkative, flexible, complex, versatile, witty

FAMOUS GEMINIS: Gwen and Geechan, Thania Catacutan, Angelina Jolie, Marilyn Monroe, Johnny Depp, TUPAC

Being with a Gemini woman is like having two people at the same time. Confused? Don't be, we are just talking about her dual personality. She has a dual nature and is capable of displaying different personality traits at different points of time. However, your major task will be to get her to commit. She is so fidgety that it becomes very difficult for her to become deeply involved with one person or place. The mind of a Gemini female never settles down at one place and her thoughts are always wandering. However, if you do manage to blend with her at the mental, spiritual as well as physical level, you will be introduced to a woman full of passion. In her youth, she is least likely to be bounded by a relationship or commitment. She may love your most irritating habits one minute and be extremely sarcastic about your new stylish haircut the very next. Maturity may bring a little bit stability in her. All this doesn't mean that Gemini women are not romantic at all. Infact, for them, romance is the one of the easiest means of communication.

Since they always have some thoughts to express, romance never goes out of their life. However, commitment is an entirely different term. A Gemini girl may love your intelligence, but she will also notice your lack of interest in creative arts. It is same the other way round too. Puzzled? You should be, at times, even she is baffled by her own complex nature. She is so vivacious and full of life that with her, you will forget even the deepest of troubles. She has the ability to light up the most somber of surroundings with her presence.

A Gemini woman will be full of the small, sentimental gestures that keep alive the romance in a relationship. She will always find new ways of telling you how much she loves you and will shower you with her alluring charm. She may act like a typical woman at one point of time, be a nervous wreck the other minute and engage in an intelligent conversation the very next second. She has the feminine charms, but she will never be clinging on to you. One thing that you will never find in a Gemini woman's characteristics profile is monotony and boredom.

She finds something good in all the men she meets and then, wants a man who has all of those qualities. However, this can't be and then, she keeps longing for that perfect man! She can be your best friend, your sports partner, your racing competitor and your lover, all at the same time. Just remember one thing, she is single-handedly giving you all this, so don't expect consistency from her. A Gemini female can look at other guys, even when she is sincerely in love with you. Change is in her nature and she has to learn to control her own behavior. Just make sure to keep her interested in you and she will remain totally devoted.She will never be suspicious of you and will expect the same from you in return. You may be out till 3 in the morning and she won't even bat an eyelid. A Gemini girl will always respect your individuality and you will be required to do the same. She may forget to do the dishes every now and then, but you can have the most soul-satisfying conversations with her. She will keep your intellect as well as creativity stimulated. Motherhood will come naturally to her and she will make a happy and gay mother, who will respect the individuality of the children.

Gemini woman makes an excellent hostess and will charm the guests with her grace. They will be treated to the best of cuisine, that too in silver cutlery. She can easily get along with anyone, right from your boss to the peon of your office. With a Gemini wife, you will feel as if you are with a different woman every other day. When she wants to speak, she will speak and when she wants to fly, she will fly. You don't know how she flies; just listen to her imagination and you will know. She is full of hopes, desires and dreams and you are welcome to share them. Just make sure that you are with her when she needs you!

People Always Leave

Sketch done by Peyton the pessimist on OTH. This is actually one of the saddest thoughts ever... But it makes damn sense, reality sucks, in this journey we can't rely and expect people to stick with us, we only have ourselves to rely on. It's not that you're mastering the art of solitude, it's more of I can manage regardless of whats gonna happen. Am I making sense here?hehe The last thing I want to happen is for me to be cynical and for me to be building walls... I guess that's the risk, it's always a package deal, if you let people in, you're giving them this emotional pass, which means youre giving them this authority to hurt you.

Emotions vary, can be happy, sad, furious, depressed, etc.

These are incredibly powerful thingies (naks parang okay ka fairy ko but kidding aside) It can make people do things they swear they will never do, it makes people eat, not eat, lose sleep, lose grip, it makes people insane in short people become ilogical.

And the worst thing of em all- EMOTIONS ARE DECEIVING!!!

I'm just sad that one of my best buds MYLA Dory Rat left, off to New Hampshire este Texas... She may be one of the most hardheaded, amnesia impacted, no-sense-of-reality fish I've met, but I still love her...*sigh*

I will surely miss her dance moves and her ever tictac personality.

Un nga people always leave- sometimes they come back, sometimes they dont............................

Emotions just have been extremely erratic this year.

All I want for Christmas...

I badly want red colored mags for Barney (name ng city ko) pag ngyari un mas astig pa key helterbrand rims ko hehehe
Gs2 ko den magpa HID... No more budget huhuhu... Kelangan sa Feb 09 mron na c Barney neto... Pero ayoko ng carbon hOod..


Super bagay saken tong mac na to *wink* hehehe

Etong dress nman na to super bagay WLANG KOKONTRA!!! Pero kelangan pumayat muna ko hehehehe

Pag nagkaron nako neto athentic tubid wifey naketch hehehe

Chase Cuban Christmas Parteee

DBP Folks

Arth, Cheeky Boy, Gwen, Arlene, Jona and Mami Yenz

Mami Petch, Jewenna, Dianne, Ruthie and yours truly =)

Arth and moi!

Me and Jonatacs

Wid Manny of CAP

Mykkeeeoooo, Gwennniiieeee, Bruceee, Geeeeee, Jewwwnnna and Diannnnnee

Alex doing the Jessica Simpson moves... frolicking...lol

Wid Bruce

me, pat and sis

May Cuban smoke effect pa db?!?

Pacensha na pow, may identity crisis tong friend ko. Confused sha kung hiphop, cuban or hater sha eh. ^_^

Perfect example ng EMO

Barney nakatakas sa Dino World

tsk tsk!!! specious!!! parang ang ambabaet amp!

Haters Club (animo HCU)

Established 2008; Gerard barney Pascua- Founder

FITSIE EMO MODE hi ho hi ho

Gwen and Gerard aka Barney Best Friends Forever LOL (whahahahahahahaha!)

HCU shirt lang db?!?hehe

Big Bow and Little Bow